How to avoid being competitive?

At a young age, we adopted

the system that teaches us not only to learn but also to compete,

Until we reach in higher level still the rules of the competition are there,

We are being wired by being competitive since then by everything around us,

The system, the people, the society,

Now as being grown up it’s up to us if we use it healthily or viciously,

Healthy competition is learning to grow and persevere in life, be supportive of other's success,

Accepting your mistakes, and learning from your mistakes will help you grow into a better you,

While vying is dragging others down for you to feel good about yourself,

You contest and you don’t want to see someone being better than you

Not realizing no one is better than anyone for we are all just small dots in this boundless universe.

Choose your own path,

Be bold, Be wise, Be you.